Fried Green Tomatoes

Tonight I watched "Fried Green Tomatoes" again, probably my favorite movie.  It will always be the movie that takes me home.  I laughed and cried and remembered the lines I have learned from repeated viewings.  I simply more than know these characters.  I grew up with them; I understand them; I am one of these characters.

So everyone wants to know the answer to the burning question - what was the true nature of Idgie and Ruth's relationship?  Were they friends, family, lovers, soul mates or all of these?  They shared a home, ran a business together and raised Ruth's baby.  They worked, laughed and cried together, served as each other's defender and Ruth died to the sound of Idgie's voice telling a tall tale.  Idgie was, obviously, not your typical Southern Bell, more male than female, full of nerve and daring.  And Ruth?  Ruth was tangibly spiritual and just plain charmed.  On screen nothing is confirmed, but I assure you that they were everything any two people can be to each other. 

I know The Whistle Stop Cafe, a little knock about place in Alabama where iced tea and bar-be-que are still served over the sound of a train whistle.  The leaves still dance in the wind along with spirits from the past, and for eternity honey will be left at Ruth's grave with a note that says "I'll always love you.  The Bee Charmer".

Comments

[C. Robin Janning]

Jan,

This movie touches my heart each time I see it. I'm not from the South, but it makes me want to be from the South. This adds weight to our desire to retire to the South.

I am always inspired, gladdened. or simply touched by your blog. But this time I noticed the link to "Beautiful Feet" Vanessa Wells' Art Blog. Thank you so much for directing me there. I have just spent a good 20 minutes there and can't wait to go back.

Happy New Year to you,
Robin